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Within the marriage, the wife is the servant, the "helper" of her husband. While the Catholic Church has changed its position on the role of filipina women in marriage, the Church in the Philippines has done little to change that mindset. As a result, filipina women in urban areas still view themselves in the role of "helper". And help she does, she helps everyone. In rural areas she belongs in the home. It is her that the children approach for money and help. She supports the education. If others outside the family need support of some sort, they approach the wife. However, the wife is not the one who gives out the money. She follows the final decision of her husband. Mama holds the respect, Papa holds the power. In urban areas filipina single girls are liberating themselves with the influence of westernization. While still culturally taboo for a filipina single girl to ask a man on a date or show interest in him, more and more woman use body language to show their openness to a relationship. However it is in their work that filipina girls and Subanen tribal women find their pride. Unlike Western culture filipina women do not feel alienated from what they do. It is because they work with their family, a job which is the most dignified of all jobs, that they pride themselves on their strong sense of responsibility. The family and the children are the priority in a woman's life. Filipina women make their families work. Divorce is seen as not only negative and destructive, but impossible if you consider that the core social unit is the family. Keep this attitude in mind because we are not dealing with a Western culture. The question for the wife is not what her rights are, but how is she going to take care of her family. Divorce is not a solution then to any problem in the marriage because it does not help the smallest community unit. A filipina girl who leaves her marriage through divorce will remarry. But the divorce and remarriage does not deal with the problems she had before her divorce. Likewise, if a man divorces his wife because the marriage doesn't "work", he will only remarry another filipina woman and encounter the same problems. In the end, you have two marriages with big problems instead of one. And in the end, you have two families that are destined to fail. Therefore, the problems between men and women must be fixed within a marriage.

Filipinas have a great respect for their elders. When a younger filipina girl meets an older relative, she takes the latter's hand and place it in her forehead. This is a sign of respect. The Filipinas' concept of self is identified with her family, so a Westerner finds them dependent and less assertive. Since childhood, she knows that the most important people in her life is her family. A filipina girl is expected to submit to her parent's advice and decision. Any disgrace she commits is the family's disgrace, too. Staring is rude and aggressive. Parents often gain control of their child by a silent look without any word spoken. Filipinas often raise their eyebrows or nod their heads upward to acknowledge someone, just like saying, "hi" or "hello". They point with their lips pouted. They are happy, generous and their hospitality is limitless. They are outgoing by nature. They are fond of giving and attending parties; any event can be an excuse. Be it a birthday, baptism, wedding, engagement, job promotion, or even getting one's first paycheck. Every people all over the world is hospitable in their own way, but nothing beats the Filipina way. Filipina girls believe that whatever happens is to them is the work of fate. They often say the phrase "Bahala na" which means "come what may". Filipinas are childlike, they are too inquisitive. There is no malice in her questions. To Westerners it might mean an invasion of one's privacy, but to them it is not. They are just ready to lend a helping hand.

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